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Menopause Unmasked: From Solitude to Strength

Updated: Apr 7

Reviewed by Ng Siew Siew, Founder of 3rd Chapter Works


Imagine standing at the crossroads of life, where everything familiar starts to change, and a new, uncharted path lies ahead. Menopause is such a crossroads for many women, a natural transition that brings about profound physical and emotional shifts.


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In fast-paced Singapore, where efficiency and achievement are prized, this emotional solitude can feel especially isolating.

While hot flashes and mood swings are often discussed, the silent shadow of loneliness that looms over this phase is rarely addressed. In the bustling city-state of Singapore, where life moves at a rapid pace, this loneliness can feel even more pronounced.


This article explores the root causes of this solitude, offers practical ways to manage it, and highlights local resources and support systems that can make a difference.


Understanding Solitude During Menopause

Hormonal Changes

The hormonal changes during menopause are not just about physical symptoms. The decline in estrogen levels can lead to feelings of sadness or loneliness. These hormones play a vital role in regulating mood, and their fluctuation can create an emotional roller coaster.


Fact: Estrogen affects serotonin and dopamine — the "feel good" neurotransmitters. Its reduction can make one feel emotionally flat or disconnected (Utian, 2005).


Social Factors

In Singapore, where family values and community ties are deeply ingrained, the transition to menopause can disrupt these connections. Whether it's children leaving home or retirement from a fulfilling career, these changes can lead to a loss of identity and feelings of isolation.


Gather strength is easier than you think!

1. Seek Professional Help if Needed

  • Counseling Services: Contact us for curated mental wellness services that offer support for women going through menopause, providing a safe space to discuss feelings and concerns.

  • Medical Support: Consultation with healthcare providers in Singapore for hormone replacement therapy or other medical interventions can be beneficial.

    • Coaching: A transition coach can help you navigate the emotional and psychological shifts of menopause, offering guidance to reconnect with yourself, reframe challenges, and build resilience during this phase of life. Coaching focuses on personal growth, mindset shifts, and moving forward with clarity and confidence.

    • Counseling Services: If emotional loneliness feels overwhelming, professional counseling can provide a safe, therapeutic space to process deep-seated emotions, past experiences, or unresolved issues. A trained therapist can help you work through these feelings with structured support.

    • Medical Support: Consultation with healthcare providers in Singapore for hormone replacement therapy or other medical interventions can be beneficial.


2. Build a Support System

  • Family and Friends: Encourage open dialogue with loved ones about what you're experiencing. Family support is vital in Singapore's close-knit communities. Join Surety's community on Facebook, LinkedIn and directly on our website by simply joining as a member! Start you own forum and community today!

  • Support Groups: Our community group on Facebook provide a platform to connect with others going through the same phase. Sharing experiences can foster understanding and camaraderie!


3. Engage in Activities

  • Exercise: Activities like Tai Chi or Yoga, widely practiced in Singapore, can enhance mood and overall well-being. Community clubs often offer classes tailored to different age groups. Let us know if you are keen to join such activities!

  • Community Involvement: Volunteering at local community centers or joining interest groups can foster a sense of connection and purpose. Initiatives like the People's Association Senior Academy offer opportunities for lifelong learning and engagement.


4. Mindfulness and Meditation

  • Mindfulness Practices: Techniques such as mindful breathing can be practiced at home or through classes in Singapore. Mindfulness-based stress reduction programs are available at various wellness centers. Learn more about setting the RIGHT mindset HERE.

  • Meditation Centers: Places like the Singapore Meditation Centre offer guided meditation, a powerful tool to manage stress and emotions.


5. Nutrition and Diet

  • Healthy Eating: Emphasize a balanced diet rich in nutrients. Also, Singapore's Health Promotion Board offers resources and guidelines for healthy eating.

  • Consult a Dietitian: Consider consulting a dietitian or nutritionist who specializes in menopause to create a personalized nutrition plan.


6. Embrace Technology

  • Online Communities: Engage with online forums and social media groups focused on menopause. These virtual connections can provide support and information.

  • Health Apps: Utilize health and wellness apps available in Singapore to track symptoms, set reminders for medication, or engage in guided relaxation techniques. Keen to find out where to get such an app? Click HERE now and sign up for exclusive deals!


Embrace the Journey, Not Just the Destination

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Loneliness during menopause is real, but it doesn’t have to define your experience.

With the right support and proactive steps, this transition can be an opportunity for reinvention, connection, and emotional renewal.


Let’s normalize these conversations and build a supportive environment for every woman in Singapore.


Surety is here to walk this journey with you.

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Important Notes: This article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a healthcare professional for personal guidance. This article has not been reviewed by medical professionals or legal bodies.


References

Daley, A., MacArthur, C., & Mutrie, N. (2011). The role of exercise in treating postmenopausal depression: A randomized controlled trial. Health Psychology, 30(6), 683-692.

Harlow, S. D., Gass, M., Hall, J. E., Lobo, R., Maki, P., Rebar, R. W., ... & de Villiers, T. J. (2012). Executive summary of the Stages of Reproductive Aging Workshop + 10: Addressing the unfinished agenda of staging reproductive aging. Menopause, 19(4), 387-395.

Sood, A., Prasad, K., Schroeder, D., & Varkey, P. (2009). Stress management and resilience training among Department of Medicine faculty: A pilot randomized clinical trial. Journal of General Internal Medicine, 24(8), 943-948.

Utian, W. H. (2005). Psychosocial and socioeconomic burden of vasomotor symptoms in menopause: A comprehensive review. Health and Quality of Life Outcomes, 3(1), 47.

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